Because I like to put pics with my posts and I can't ever find the camera. There you have it... thats it.
So here it is. I want to build a fence around my new home. It's funny that I now love grass, plants, fences, walls, building, houses, the housing market, equity. These things did not matter to me a year ago.
One neighbor brought home an ugly blue bulging swimming pool, and put it in their front yard. Not only is it an eye sore to the neighborhood, it's, unknown to them, 3' on my property. They have literally 2-3' weeds and no grass. The other side mowed their lawn on the lowest setting and then let it die. This kills me. Why? I don't know, maybe because i put a lot of work on my home and it seems a shame. At least the neighbor across the way, Chris, cares about his home too.
Plane tickets are ridiculous! It's going to cost us $1100 just to fly to MN for 10 days! Again I say ridiculous!... and yet, worth every penny.
I love my job. I love being a business owner and having the freedom to improve and change without an irrational wall. It amazes me that most employees don't care about the company they work for, only the check, however, when that rare person comes in and truly has the companies best interest in mind, no one hears their ideas, because it would involve change.
My marriage is fresh. Cristina and I went on a wonderful Marriage conference, and although it ripped us to shreds and surfaced all kinds of hurt and confusion, it was needed and incredible. The question is now "why don't we put more time and training into the greatest investment we'll ever make?"
I learned my integrity, duty, obligation and honor as a husband has nothing to do with the performance of my wife. She isn't at all, but if she was vicious, it wouldn't matter as far as my role as a husband.
I learned I need to fight for the dignity of my wife in all situations. Especially when I'm the offender.
I learned that my commitment to Cristina has everything to do with my covenant with God and displaying the love and grace God has for his church though our marriage.
I learned that my time with Cristina should be an act of worship. It should include thanking God for her, and understanding how powerful of a gift she is, absolutely from God, and in doing so I honor her with my actions.
I learned that it's now time to get off the computer and go to bed.